Protecting Birth Mothers’ Choice in Adoption Ethics
“This is the best part of my day.” Judges say this at nearly every adoption finalization. After more than 1,100 cases, attorney Lonn Litchfield still feels the same way.
In this episode of Adoption Utah with host Donna Pope, Lonn shares insights from decades of adoption law, explaining why ethical adoption begins with one core principle: a genuine choice for birth mothers. From contested cases that stretch on for years to courtroom moments that restore hope, he explains what keeps experienced attorneys committed to adoption work over a lifetime.
Contested Adoptions and Legal Battles
Most adoptions move smoothly from consent to finalization. Occasionally, a biological father, birth mother, or relative challenges the process. These contested cases can last for years and require extensive preparation. Lonn has lost limited contested cases because agencies do thorough work before placement begins. In Utah, he has never seen a birth mother successfully set aside her consent, even though the law technically allows it. The key is ensuring that consent is informed, voluntary, and properly obtained from the start.
Ethics Defined by Choice
For Lonn, ethical adoption means a birth mother has real choice, with all options presented and respected. Dignity, liberty, listening, and support—regardless of her decision—are essential. One judge used to honor birth mothers at every finalization, recognizing the courage and love involved in placing a child for adoption. That perspective continues to guide how Lonn approaches every case.
Why Everyone Benefits From Adoption
Just before this interview, a judge told Lonn that finalizing an adoption was the perfect way to end the day. That sentiment is echoed every time. The child gains stability; adoptive parents realize a long-held hope, and birth families find peace knowing their child is loved. Lonn’s own father was adopted in 1932, giving him a generational view of adoption’s lasting impact. In an imperfect world, adoption helps make things more whole.
An Adoption Utah story about protecting families under pressure, honoring voluntary consent, and why adoption remains deeply meaningful legal work. Listen now on you favorite platforms and share with anyone navigating adoption decisions or seeking clarity around ethical adoption.
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